ok so im not an extreme activist in anything, i know i have my opinions, i know im not going to just agree with someones elses point of view just because they are considered the norm, or because its rebellious.
like any other human, i havent opinions, thoughts and ideas.
unlike many other humans i know, i do however have more will power and down right stubbornness to not care that maybe it doesnt always earn or keep me friends (in which case theres no love lost, because we couldnt have been that close a friends without you already knowing that about me)
So i understand i have gay friends, but to be honest, its none of my business what they get up to in the bedroom, same way its none of my business what my straight friends get up to in the bedroom.
is that just me?
do you guys actually care what others do or what makes them happy?
its not bothering you, its not hurting anyone, its not like its contagious and soon the whole world will be gay.
its been around since forever, and to be honest the only thing i can see that it is in this day and age, is its a novelty because its the unknown.
and lets face it, that just means you were brought up differenly or in a different place.
im not in anyway trying to be racists, BUT gay would be to me the exact same as skin colour.... im not black or asian or anything, but that doesnt make me any different from them.
Where i live, and where i was brought up, i will admit there are and were basically no other ethnicitys but white.
But that in no way means i think someone of a different language or skin colour is going to be any different from me. that just means, its a fact, i havent been brought up around other cultures or races, thats just means its unknown to me personally.
YET i still understand its none of my business, thats why i cant wrap my head around other peoples ways of thinking, that its wrong, or different.
this might be me being immature but have any of you seen the croods?
well its a family cartoon about cavemen and finding the new and unknown. go watch it and youll see how it relates to all this.
so theres a scene where the father is telling a story, and in the story the character found something new and DIED,
thats how all his stories went, anything new, different or unkknown was bad, and you die.
To me, people that make fun of someone because they are new, different or unknown to them, wether they are gay or not, to me, translates to the utter stupidity of that caveman that instantly thought it was bad, and would kill them.
So next time you think omg they cant get married, they shouldnt be allowed a child, ask yourself are you any smarter than the caveman (at least he learned his lesson and embraced the new and different by the end of the movie)
does it really bother you how someone else chooses to live thier life?
do you think two loving same sex parents are going to do any worse a job than some of the trashy unfit parents we see raising kids badly?
i mean, theres orphans, really unhappy ones, and i highly doubt they care whether they get straight or gay parents, as long as its a happy loving home.
a movie that was ill admit slow and didnt really speak to me until near the end is 'any day now' its about two gay guys taking in an unfit mothers downsydrome child, who was going to be lost and abused in the foster system, nobody would love or look after the child, except these two guys, yet after a year of happy life together, people butted thier noses in and the whole thing blew up in everyones face.
seriously its actually an amazing wee movie, if you watch it all the way to the end you just wanna go out and smack any nosey anti gay faces.
sorry the rant had to be done. thats some of my thoughts n im sticking to it.
ive never thought of homesexuality as wrong, ive never hated anyone because they dont look or think the same as me, idk maybe i grew up with too much pochauntas and understand just because someones different doesnt make them bad. it makes them different, end of.
live and let live
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